Sunday, July 28, 2013

My body, my choices



The title is very ominous, but the picture says it all; this blog post is about tattoos. Tattoos are becoming much more main stream as of late, especially in people born from the 1980’s to the 2000’s (commonly referred to as “generation Y”). Even though tattoos are slowly but surely becoming more common that does not mean that people in past generations, and even generation Y, are going to be “for” tattoos. In fact, I have encountered numerous people in my own personal life that have criticized people for tattoos.




As most of you know, I am definitely “for” tattoos. I see tattoos as a great way to express yourself and a great way to make sure that things that mean something to you can be displayed for others to see and also to be a constant reminder for yourself. Personally, I don’t have a problem with people putting whatever they want on their bodies to be an extension of themselves. The way I see things is that it is your body and you can choose to do with it what you want. It doesn’t really matter what others think of what you’re doing because ultimately it’s your choice and your choice alone.

Even if a person is against getting tattoos themselves it doesn’t give them the right to judge you for your choices. Nothing really gives anyone the right to judge someone. Tattoos are just a personal choice like anything else, such as smoking cigarettes or wearing a certain brand of clothing. If you see tattoos as a way to show a part of you, then go for it. To me, tattoos are just another form of art. Tattoos can be the most beautiful displays of a person’s life and/or personality.

I have heard numerous people say that because someone has tattoos they won’t be able to get a good job. As far as I know, the only real way that businesses can use your tattoos to not hire you are those that explicitly state that in an application. Of course, there are still some businesses that do not state this and still do it but people assume that this is the case more often than it is. In reality, a person that has numerous tattoos can be just as successful as those that do not have tattoos. Most people forget that if you get a tattoo in the right places it is very easy to cover up to the point where people in the workplace won’t even notice it.

The odds are, no matter what choices you make in life there will be someone that doesn’t agree with it. You can’t go through life worrying about what other people think you should do. Do what makes you happy. If you like tattoos and want to use them to express yourself then who cares what everyone else thinks? I see self-expression as a very important part of becoming your true self. If you can’t express yourself without worrying what others think then I don’t believe that you can say that you are completely being yourself.

I may be a tad bit biased when it comes to this subject, but this is a way to express myself. Some people may not agree with me and that is alright because everyone is entitled to their opinion. Yes I have three tattoos and I plan on getting more. I have things that mean so much to me that I want to display them in beautiful art for others to see. That doesn’t mean that I won’t be successful.

-Eric Proulx